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Real Talk & Resources for Disabled Self‐Advocates

  • Roxci Bevis
  • 6 days ago
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Written by Jenine Lillian, BCPF Board: Regional Director - Kootenays, and Neurodiversity

Consultant & Educator

August 15, 2025


If you're reading this, chances are you're already out there making things happen—advocating for accessibility for yourself and your community, growing a small business, or leading change in ways that matter. As a disabled adult involved in self-advocacy, entrepreneurship, or community leadership, you already know how important it is to build real, lasting relationships. Your voice is powerful, the work you're doing is important, and networking is often the bridge between where you are and where you want to go.


And if you're like many of us—especially those who are introverted or navigate invisible

disabilities—traditional networking can feel like trying to fit a square peg into a round hole.

The small talk, the crowds, the pressure to be "on" all the time? Exhausting doesn't even

begin to cover it.


That's exactly why I created Networking for Introverts.



A Different Kind of Networking Workshop


This isn't your typical networking event where you're expected to be ready with a perfect elevator pitch. This free Zoom workshop is designed specifically for disabled adults who want to build genuine connections without pretending to be someone they're not.


Whether you navigate social anxiety, chronic fatigue, sensory overload, or simply prefer meaningful conversations over small talk, this session offers practical tools that work with your natural strengths—not against them.


As an #ActuallyAutistic introvert, Neurodiversity Consultant and educator, I'm leading this

workshop from lived experience. No one-size-fits-all advice here—just real strategies from

someone who's been where you are.



Why This Workshop Matters for People Like Us


Many disabled folks are natural entrepreneurs. We're problem-solvers by necessity,

innovative thinkers, and deeply understand what our communities need. But traditional

business networking? Often completely inaccessible.


Your advocacy grows stronger with connection. Whether you're organizing, mentoring, or

leading change, collaboration amplifies your voice and extends your reach.


Introversion isn't something to overcome—it's a strength to leverage. Learn to network in ways that energize rather than drain you.


You deserve to show up authentically. No masking, no pushing through burnout, no

pretending to be someone you're not.



How This Connects to BC People First Society


This workshop directly supports the mission of BC People First Society (BCPF)—a

grassroots, self-advocacy organization run by and for people with intellectual and

developmental disabilities in British Columbia.


BCPF champions inclusion, self-determination, leadership, and rights through peer support and advocacy. Join us! BCPF Society membership is FREE.


By learning accessible networking strategies, you're not just building professional connections—you're expanding your capacity to advocate, lead, and create the changes our communities need. Every authentic connection you make has the potential to advance the causes you care about most.


Workshop Details: Mark Your Calendar


What You'll Actually Learn (No Fluff)

  • How to start conversations that feel natural (seriously, no small talk required)

  • Scripts and follow-up strategies that won't drain your social battery

  • How to set your own pace, manage your energy, and protect your capacity

  • Ways networking can grow your advocacy work, leadership, or business

  • Strategies for connecting both online and in-person without burning out



Essential Support Programs Every Disabled Canadian Should Know


While we're talking about building connections, let me share some key Canadian programs that can support your advocacy and entrepreneurial goals. These supports can make a real difference in your financial stability and access to services—and knowing about them makes you a better resource for your community too.


1. Disability Tax Credit (DTC)


This non-refundable tax credit reduces your income tax and opens doors to other benefits. You need this before applying for most other supports.


How to apply:

  • Step 1: Formal assessment and clinical diagnosis required

  • Step 2: Complete Part A using BC Services Card app

  • Step 3: Send reference number to your healthcare practitioner for Part B



2. Canada Disability Benefit (NEW!)


Anyone who has been approved for the DTC can apply for the new CDB which gives direct financial support for disabled adults aged 18-64, launched in July 2025.


Key dates:

  • First payments: July 2025, up to $200 per month

  • Apply now and if approved, back payments available



3. Canada Dental Care Plan


Available to anyone approved for DTC. You'll receive a letter inviting you to apply once your DTC is processed.



4. Registered Disability Savings Plan (RDSP)

Long-term savings with potential government matching up to $90,000. Must be 47 or younger to apply.


Steps:

  • Apply for DTC first

  • Contact your bank to set up appointment

  • Bring: DTC proof, voided cheque, government ID



5. Person With Disability (PWD) Benefit in British Columbia


Provincial assistance with income and service supports. Note: There's a $15,000 yearly earning cap, and Level 1 ASD may not be prioritized.




Business Owners: You're Not Alone


If you're running a business, check out the resources and advocacy from the IWSCC - Inclusive Workplace and Supply Council of Canada (IWSCC).


The IWSCC champions Canadian business owners who are Veterans and/or persons with disabilities, working to create more inclusive workplaces and supply chains.



Final Thoughts: Your Authentic Self Matters


Networking doesn't have to be overwhelming, exclusive, or fake. It can be a genuine tool for community-building, mutual support, and creating the changes our world desperately needs.


If you've ever felt out of place in traditional professional spaces, if you've ever wished there was a different way to connect, if you're tired of networking advice that feels impossible to follow—this Zoom workshop is for you.


Whether you're a BC People First member, advocating independently, running a small business, or working to build a more inclusive world, I'll meet you exactly where you are and help you grow from there.


Your voice matters. Your connections matter. And most importantly—you matter, exactly as you are.



Jenine Lillian (Jenine, they/them) has recently joined the BCPF Society’s Board of Directors as the Regional Director for the Kootenay Region. In addition to being an #ActuallyAutistic introvert, Jenine is an artist, author, librarian, birdwatcher, and nap taker. You can learn more about Jenine’s background, experience, and advocacy work at https://www.jeninelillian.com

 
 
 

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